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2. Anatomy is
behavior
3. Self regulation
Therefore another
central theme is the one how we form transitions, which you
elaborated even more during the last years.
4. The layers of
relationship
These aspects are linked
to the question how we form an intra- and interpersonal dialogue. To this
end you wrote two books: „Bonding“ and „Stages of Love“. In these books, you
developed a concept of the stages and layers of relationship. One of the
essential questions is: How am I ‚present’ – in relation to myself and to
others? How do I organize this presence in a somatic-emotional way? How do I
receive my vis-à-vis in the sense of „Being There is Being With“? The
therapeutic relation has also a formative focus. In my work as therapist,
this becomes manifest in an important question: In the form of whom does my
vis-à-vis need me in order to undertake his/her next step in the process of
formation?
In this context, you
created, within the framework of formative psychology™, the basis for the
somatically founded understanding of relationships between couples and on
the base of stages of forming and between family members in the context of
what you call the family body.
5. Education und
Therapy
In this context you also
redefined the position of formative work. It represents an all-embracing
somatic-emotional education. The therapeutical - clinical work is just one
aspect of formative work. Nevertheless you developed important concepts
which enable to deal with patterns of insults - on strictly anatomic basis
as well: From this the concept of the patterns of distress may be developed
which makes possible the treatment of stress-related diseases, of the so
called somatypes, of the continuum of panic and depression and other
disorders. The basic book is “Emotional Anatomy” followed by the book
“Embodying Experience” about this methodology.
6. Maturity versus
aging
In a time, in which age
is of interest for demographical reasons, you developed also a central
concept, which is also consistently founded on anatomy: the concept of the
stages of life and especially of the stage of maturity and recently of the
phase of old age. All of us, who had worked together with you in the
nineties, followed its creation and elaboration.
You developed a
differentiated typology of the different life-stages, which turn the later
stages in life into a desirable phase. Yet, this is only possible if we are
willing not to give in into the aging process, nor to struggle against it.
By contrast, we have to be disposed to accept the biological offer and to
somatically form our process of aging.
7. Working with
dreams
At the same time, you
abandoned the dream work from the interpretation of symbols and, therefore
you made it fruitful for the voluntary muscular-cortical application. Dreams
as motile figures volatilize, yet by reincorporating the dream figures and
by differentiating their attitude in our incorporation, we may confer
duration on them and apply the newly formed layers to our lives.
8. Working with myths
In conclusion, I would
like to address another dimension which has been very inspiring for me
personally. Dreams are a kind of somatical myth, and myths are a kind of
dream.
You said: „Myth is a
script for bodying, for action, for creating an inner cathedral, a somatic
self. Literature is also a pattern of embodiment”.
Neither collective nor
personal myths, nor dreams are there for the interpreter. They are
expressions of the Soma:
„The Soma and its
expressions are twins.“
They want to be used by
working with them somatically - like with dreams. This concept might
establish a new basis for the understanding using of art , such as you
explained in your book „Myth and the Body“ and in your articles.
9. Formative language
You did not only create
a concept for how to deal with literature; you are, above also, a scientific
artist and an artful scientist. You created your own consistent formative
language by abandoning the traditional philosophical-psychological
categories.
Your teachings are an
artful blend of theories and of practical work.
10. Acknowledgment
At this stage, there is
nothing else for me but to thank you. My life and my work have been formed
by your lifework. Most importantly, you have taught me to grasp what it
means to live and form a formative way of living. I am certain that I am
also speaking in the name of my colleagues.
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